Hugo Morales - Son1

    Gender: Male
    Location: San Diego
    Relationship: Married
    Orientation: Straight
    Children: Proud Parent
    # of Kids: 3
    Height: 6'1"
    Ethnicity: Latino / Hispanic
    About Me: Here is a summary of my recent journey and experience.
    · I’ve taken many job related HR courses and most of them do require some form of “Listening” and “coaching” skills. · I’ve gone through marriage counseling and even though I went kicking and screaming into it, I now have a great deal of respect for the profession and the skills required to truly help break through the many issues in our lives. She primarily focused on the Imago theory. · Studied a book called “ Getting the love you want” working the “Imago” concept from Harville Hendrix, PhD (Great for knowing about your childhood stuff) · I’ve also connected with a Life Coach of my own and I’m in the process of reviewing coaching schools for a possible future career.
    My Coach = http://www.janafleming.com/
    · “The Secret” is a concept that I truly believe in http://thesecret.tv/
    · One of my recent weekend retreats is called the “Shadow Process”. This is taught by Debbie Ford. http://www.debbieford.com/
    Read a couple of her books
    · The Best Year of your life · The Right Questions · Dark Side of the light chasers
    · Maria and I recently went through the Communication Program in a small group @ church
    · I just finished the Oprah book called “ A New Earth” with Eckhart Tolle ---- Deep Stuff
    Founder of "Guysneeedhelptoo". A community website that will hopefully provide an avenue for men to talk to other men about their problems. Still not officially launched and looking for the right group of men to kick it off.
    I want it to be a tool, not a place to talk sports.
    I only have a couple of friends on it for testing purposes, and I’m still modifying it.
    Music: Anything but country
    Books: Anything that keeps me grounded and works towards my awareness.
    Purchased my first set of reading glasses. Old Man.
    Likes: http://www.linkedin.com/in/hugomorales
    o I was raised by a single mom and am the oldest of 3 (2 other girls) o I am a father and a step father o I struggled to be a success but I did ok. I know enough to know how difficult it will be for many of these boys when they grow up, try to have a career, try to develop a relationship and become fathers themselves. o I’ve spent the last year dedicated to researching my own issues and feel almost a responsibility to share my own findings to those that are not as fortunate to have taken the time or had the resources. o This started because my wife and I could just not communicate. Even with all the good intentions, we were not conscious enough about the dynamics of our past to help each other. o It turned into a journey that led to clearer understanding of my blueprint and the complexity of this new world
    Hobbies: Golf, Drawing, Painting
    Virtues: I find that the questions continue at all ages, but we don't know how or who to ask.
    I refuse to allow other men to go without knowing that they are NOT ALONE.
    Heroes: Mother - She always took care of her kids.
    Wife - She helped me with my soul and gave me peace of mind.
    Daughter - She showed me what unconditional love is all about.

    42 years old and going back to school

    Saturday, September 6, 2008, 12:04 PM PST [General]

    I'm 42 years old and after a ton of soul searching, I finally realized that what I'm really passionate about is to understand the human condition. Psychology.

    So I decided to go back to school and start all over again at the age of 42. I'm still working of course, but I'm going back to get my psychology degree.

    I find it interesting that we somehow expect our kids to know what they want to do in their careers right out of high school when I'm just now understanding what I am passionate about.

    Anybody else reaching this point in their life?

    Is this the mid life crisis?

    Or am I finally on the right path?

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    San Diego Homes, Real estate & Realtor

    Thursday, April 24, 2008, 01:31 PM PST [General]

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    Gen "Y" = Our Kids

    Friday, April 4, 2008, 01:01 PM PST [General]

    I just herd for the first time about " The Entitled" generation. Come to find out that these are our kids and no matter what parent I talk to, they all appear to think the same way. I read an article that gave an example of a 15 year old girl and a 31 year old man. Same Gen. See article below from the Post or something like that.

    The New "Me" Generation

    The crop of talented recent graduates coming into today's workforce is widely seen as narcissistic and entitled. And those are their best qualities.

    15 Year old girl = The prospect of working at a Fortune 500 company - and landing the sort of well-paying job that Americans once regarded as the benchmark of success - holds zero allure for her.

    She would be far happier running her own company. "I have the time, I have the brains, I have the patience to do it, and I am not going to give up if I fail once," she vows.

    31 year old = As he puts it, "I have no problem knocking on the door and walking into the CEO's office or the CTO's office on a whim - interrupting their schedule - and saying, 'I need to talk to you.'" He says that ever since he was a kid, he has been "knocking heads with basketball teachers, track coaches, teachers, and girlfriends. If I felt that I was right, I wouldn't back down."

    Virtually everyone born after 1970 = these young people were

    1. raised on a daily regimen of praise and flattery from their baby boomer parents and
    2. from teachers who embraced a self-esteem-boosting curriculum that included activities like the Magic Circle game.
      1. Never heard of it? In this game, one child a day is given a badge that says "I'm great." The other children then take turns praising the "great" child, and eventually these compliments are written up and given to the child for posterity.
    3. This constant reinforcement, is largely responsible for those young co-workers who drive you nuts.

    At the University of South Alabama, psychology professor Joshua has given a Narcissism personality test to a range of demographic groups around the world, and no group has scored higher than the American teenager.

    Narcissism also appears to be reaching new highs, even within the Entitlement Generation, among American college students.

    The concept of narcissism is an ancient idea that dates to Greek mythology. According to legend, Narcissus was a beautiful Grecian youth who fell madly in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. Unable to avert his eyes from the image of his own face, Narcissus knelt too close to the water, fell in, and drowned.

    Comments From Son1 ; What have we created?

     

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